No hatred, envy or shunning...

قال رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏ "‏ لاَ تَبَاغَضُوا وَلاَ تَحَاسَدُوا وَلاَ تَدَابَرُوا وَكُونُوا عِبَادَ اللَّهِ إِخْوَانًا وَلاَ يَحِلُّ لِمُسْلِمٍ أَنْ يَهْجُرَ أَخَاهُ فَوْقَ ثَلاَثٍ ‏"‏ ‏.‏
Prophet Muhammad Peace be upon him said, “Do not hate one other; and do not envy one another; do not ignore one another; and be servants of Allah as brothers. No Muslim is allowed to shun his (Muslim) brother for more than 3 days.”
*shun somebody/something means to avoid somebody/something

Suggestion:
As a family read the hadeeth & each person shares what he learned from it.

Reference:
Sunan Abi Dawud 4910
https://sunnah.com/abudawud/43/138