Ultimate Win-Win

قَالَ رَسولُ الله صَلّى الله عَلَيْه وُسَلّم: مَا يُصِيبُ الْمُسْلِمَ مِنْ نَصَبٍ وَلاَ وَصَبٍ وَلاَ هَمٍّ وَلاَ حَزَن وَلاَ أَذًى وَلاَ غمٍّ، حتَّى الشَّوْكَةُ يُشَاكُها إِلاَّ كفَّر اللَّه بهَا مِنْ خطَايَاه متفقٌ عَلَيهِ.


Narrated Abu Sa`id Al-Khudri and Abu Huraira
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: "No fatigue, nor disease, nor sorrow, nor sadness, nor hurt, nor distress befalls a Muslim, even if it were the prick he receives from a thorn, but that Allah expiates some of his sins for that."


My comments 😊
1-We all know that we will be tested in this life in both Good & bad days
*Good days tests require shukr ( thankfulness to Allah through words & actions)
*Bad days tests require patience

2- The good news is that everything afflict us, it’s a mean for forgiveness of our sins Alhamdulillah 👍

3- Bonus reward for those that they are patient while they are being tested.
So win win situation.
Forgiveness + reward
Woohoo 🎉 😊

4- Being patient doesn’t mean you can’t cry or be sad or speak about your pain.
Absolutely, not
As long as you don’t start breaking things around or say why me or why Allah is doing this to me
Or anything that will show your rejection of your fate or say what displeases Allah, you should be fine in shaa Allah. 😊

5-We have to show respect and manners before Allah when we are being tested and show Allah the best of us. 👍😊

Reference:
Sahih al-Bukhari 5641, 56 
https://sunnah.com/bukhari/75/2